Now that I got that out
Monday I talk to the father asking if he could keep the kids over night on Tuesday, side bar:
Of course I was/am irked that I have to come up with a story so you can keep your kids and I can go out. WTF?? where not together and why do you care?? I decided that I would tell him what he needed to hear just to keep the peace and not rock the boat.
He said he would(after asking me why whats going on) he also said that he would pick them up from the daycare. I made plans to hang out with Tate(is what we will call him) on Tuesday and I honestly said to myself I just may want to spend the night out hence why I asked the father to keep them. After we made that plan I said cool then I can go to the gym straight from work then come home. So yesterday he goes to the daycare and picks everyone up except my oldest daughter. Normally shes not at the daycare but there was no school yesterday so she was. The father picks everyone up(mind you my middle child is in the same bldg) and then says to her your mom is coming to get you. Here we go with the games, so after she texted me that I left the gym to go get her all the while cursing like a drunken sailor on the phone to him. But once I got home and calmed down(whoo sigh) I started getting ready for my date.
Tate lives in the city and we decided I would meet him at his place then we would go get something to eat. Feeling rather sexy in my jeans and smelling very good, I met him at his place and he gave me a tour. He has this huge 3 story house that he is in the process of renovating himself. Its tile, flooring, paint, sheet rock holes in the wall when you walk in, the downstairs isn't complete so we head up to the second floor where he knocked down a wall to create a bigger bedroom for himself. His daughter room and her bathroom was done to perfection then I could see how good his work is. We went up another flight of stairs where he knocked down another wall to open up the space and there is where he built a bar w/ a sink put down ceramic floors and installed a heart shape black jacuzzi in the back room. He also opened up the front window and built a deck off of the 3rd floor with sliding glass tinted windows. This room is where he stays but plans to make it an official entertainment area. So we sat and talked he told me if I needed anything done at my place he would do it(yes please I need the place painted) and after plenty of comments about how I look and how well I aged I kinda let go of some of my insecurity. I hate that I have some insecurity about my weight, I know I carry it well but I know this isn't really me. Thats why I have been putting in serious effort about the gym and watching what I eat. Anyway after the tour we headed out the clock bar, this was one of my fav spots when I went to Temple, yes its a neighborhood bar that serves awesome seafood. After we ate we headed back to his place and he poured us a drink and he put on the Kevin Hart comedy show. We talked about our recent relationships and what we want and direction we want to go talked about our kids he still has that silly side that I like. We both talked about how much we just enjoyed hanging out with each other and we both agreed that we where actually friends and enjoyed each other company. I realized when we got back the jacuzzi was full so we decided to get in and relax and watch the movie in there. I was being shy and made him leave when I took my clothes off, he laughed and said I was being silly and that I looked great, whatever turn around while I get in. We drank and laughed in the jacuzzi, after we both got pretty tipsy and wrinkled from being in the water we decided to get out. He lives just like the typical bachelor digging around for the bag of clean clothes for some towels. We laid in bed and he attempted to put on a movie but neither of us where interested in the movie. I have always been attracted to big guys, I like when a guy has a big wide chest and shoulders and he had all that along with that scruffy rugged look. So I had a great time and left early enough this morning to be to work on time.
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